20 Things I Know To Be True About Life

Harsh, uncomfortable truths learned after 25 years

Devin Arrigo
5 min readMar 15, 2021

Looking in the rearview mirror can deliver powerful insights.

Unfortunately, it usually also brings with it pain and regret. Although uncomfortable, the best way to learn is by enduring the consequences of a bad decision. Without reflecting on the past, we’ll never understand the best way to move forward.

Here are 20 things I’ve learned to be true about life.

1. Everyone is just guessing.

The vast majority of people are making things up as they go. No one has anything figured out — they’re learning as they go. The ones who appear to have it all “figured out” are just more experienced than you.

2. No one cares what you do.

Outside of your parents, family, and best friends, most people operate in their own world. Once you come to terms with this, you’ll realize there’s no reason not to be who you want to be. No matter what you do or how you act, people are generally cool with you being you.

3. Talent is overrated.

Success is not reserved only for the gifted or naturally-talented. What you lack in talent or intelligence, you can more than make…

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Devin Arrigo

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